December 31, 2006: FAMILY BUSINESS
Luke 2:41-52, 1 Samuel 2:18-20, 26
Eileen Parfrey - Springwater Presbyterian Church


Today's sermon is brought to you by my never-ending quest to bring you with me wherever I go. I've just gotta share with you my Christmas gift from my beloved husband, a visit to the Dead Sea Scrolls exhibit at the Seattle Science Museum.

One of my early memories is of my dad reading me a National Geographic article on the discovery of scrolls in the Dead Sea desert caves in 1947 by Bedouin shepherds. Scholars had only just decided that the parchments might genuinely be 2,000 years old, making them the oldest copies of scripture. Growing up, knowing they were tightly controlled by a group of Christian scholars, I never imagined I could see them. It wasn't until the 1980s that the collection was made widely available to scholars. The Seattle Science Museum exhibit is a first, really, a small portion of that collection, a mere ten fragments that include, "God created humankind in his own image" and God's answer to Moses wondering what to tell the Israelites when they ask who sent him: "I AM WHO I AM." The other fragments on display include rules about community life, a religious calendar, prophecy, description of a Davidic Warrior King and statements about bodily resurrection.

Exhibits before the actual fragments focus on archaeological methodology and artifacts of the Essene community, believed to be the originators of the scrolls. I found myself face-to-face with the pieces I'd heard about, first as a small daughter at her father's story-telling knee, then as a graduate student asking scholarly questions of the text, looking for authoritative answers. The room was dimly lighted, the cases containing the fragments were climate-controlled with lights rhythmically going on and off to save the documents from light damage. It felt sacred. Two thousand years ago, the community went through the arduous process of scraping and curing sheep skins, trimming reeds to make pens, formulating ink from soot, oil, pitch, and water. All this, by the Jewish Essene sect to preserve the written word so as to live in purity, reverence, and holiness, anticipating the End of the World and the coming of God's Anointed. The scrolls contained both the "how to" and the "why" of their life of anticipation.

Their reverence for the holiness of God was reflected in their every action. Before copying scripture, a scribe would ascertain he had not eaten or touched anything unclean nor engaged in activities requiring repentance and absolution. After purification of his body in ritual baths, he put on clean linen robes before beginning to write. When the text required him to write the name of God, he would leave a blank space and move on. Later, he would come back to fill in God's name, but only after re-purifying himself, putting on new robes, and using a new pen. Only then could he write what was so holy it couldn't be pronounced-The Name-spelled YHWH but pronounced "Yahweh" or simply "The Name."

I stood over a fragment of Psalm 119 on exhibit in that dimly lighted room. An acrostic poem, its subject is the holiness and importance of God's Word. As I gazed, I found myself weeping. The letters were so exquisitely clear. I could read them, and when it came to The Name, the alphabet changed from Hebrew to a more ancient alphabet. What moved me wasn't just the antiquity of the piece, nor was it the single-mindedness of piety that had written that scroll. This concrete thing was a window to what was behind it, a mystery itself so holy as to be worth the focus of one's life. I wept for what the scroll itself required of me.

It was in this world that Jesus was raised. Many scholars think John the Baptist (Jesus' cousin, according to Luke) was raised in the Essene community. His ministry's emphasis on baptism, repentance, the apocalypse and the coming of a Warrior King who would judge-this was the heart of the Essene community's beliefs, concerns reflected in scroll fragments on display. It is not surprising that the 12-year-old boy would be found in the Temple. The Temple crowd, after all, is the group most opposed to the Essenes (who were probably the most pious people he knew). One of the points of contention was apparently whether to base the calendar on a lunar year or a solar year.

The calendar argument had everything to do with when you celebrated the religious days of obligation. Mary and Joseph have gone to Jerusalem to celebrate Passover, one of the days of obligation. We don't know if they went to the solar or the lunar celebration, but Franciscan writer Richard Rohr suggests today's story reveals the extraordinary love between Jesus and his parents, because Jesus' actions demonstrate his freedom and security in being loved. Being parented by humans can often give children the impression that they are unlovable. From the toilet training, "Shame on you!" to the grade point average disappointment, "You can do better than this," parents use the model they were given. Shaming, manipulating, threatening. At what point does "You can do anything you set your mind to" cease to be incentive and become manipulation? "Now show that your mind is set." "You're the oldest" is a statement of fact that can slip into an accusatory "You ought to know better." "I told you to never do that" can carry the implied threat, "And if you do--!" Children have perceived these as lies about being unlovable for millennia, but more recently, we've turned the lie inside out, although it comes to the same thing. The sexual revolution gave us "free love." "It's private; I'm not hurting anyone else." "If it feels good, do it." "It's no more significant than shaking hands." The new twist on the old lie is still that we are stuck being unlovable unless we prove otherwise.

Jesus is no Super Hero in the Temple horning in on religious conversation. Maybe Jesus is investigating the family controversy with the Jerusalem religious community. Luke, after all, says he is listening and questioning. When his mother confronts him, he claims "family business" as his reason. Richard Rohr says this conversation is about "coming of age," and maybe that's what we need to apply to our own lives. Like any kid, Jesus needs to leave Mama's apron strings. We all have to claim our own lives, take responsibility for our actions, stop using what our parents did to us as an excuse. Herb Anderson says that you haven't really left home until you can go away and come back again. As Jesus' mission develops later in the gospel, he redraws family boundaries to include those who do God's will.

So maybe the Essenes were right. Maybe a whole lot to our faith life is about what we do. I don't mean obsessing over whether you touched something unclean and now you have to take another shower. Archaeology reveals concrete information about Essene piety focused absolutely on anticipation of God's coming. It kind of makes me wonder what concrete artifacts would be found of our reverence for God, what stories will be left to show that we believed there is more to life than the here-and-now. The 12-year-old boy Jesus may have been checking out religious quibbles. Was this worth staking his life on? But his parents show up. They remind him by their very presence to live unquestionably as one unquestionably loved.

The Essenes thought what we do with our body makes a difference, because of bodily resurrection. For Christians living in the Pacific Northwest in the 21st century, this is a challenge. It's a challenge to believe that what we do makes a difference to other people. We can get so focused on our own pain and loneliness and dissatisfactions that we forget our actions and beliefs and inactions have implications for others. Mary's simple, "Your father and I have been searching for you in great anxiety" resonates through the millennia. His parents loved him. There is more to life than we ourselves. And maybe that's the challenge, not as in "this is hard to do," but challenge as in, "this is what we get to do" (if only we will). The challenge for Jesus was to understand that being loved was enough reason to be obedient and return home. The challenge to us (if only we will) is to not only "understand" that we are loved enough. But to live as if our lives depended on it. Because they do.

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