June 12, 2005: Advice
About Evangelism
Matthew 9:9-26; Genesis
21:1-7; Psalm 116:1-2, 12-19
Eileen Parfrey, Springwater Presbyterian
Church
When did Presbyterians stop laughing?
The word "dour"-often used
to describe Presbyterians, and meaning
stern, serious, inflexible-is a Scottish
word, so perhaps our lack of laughter
is a throw-back to the Mother Ship.
But today's texts are filled with laughter.
The Genesis story hears Sarah laugh
in amazement and delight at the birth
of her child, Isaac. Laughter ripples
through the whole Abraham/Sarah story.
Abraham laughs when God says 90-year-old
Sarah will have a son in the near future.
Sarah eavesdrops on her husband and
the trinity of visitors, and when they
say the same thing, she laughs. Now,
the child whose very coming is laughter,
is named laughter. And we Presbyterians
(the frozen chosen) never dream that
laughter was evangelism.
Laughter in the Matthew story
is derisive. It is so not about delight
and faith. There's a Monty Python sketch
about a dead Norwegian Blue parrot.
The pet store owner insists the parrot
isn't dead, it's sleeping-or pining
for the fjords. The official mourners
must have thought Jesus was doing a
Monty Python imitation when he says
the girl is sleeping. They aren't laughing
like Sarah-delight in too-good-to-be-true.
They're thinking, "This guy must
be nuts! The girl is dead!"
This run of stories in Matthew
ought to make us uncomfortable-we good,
faithful, religious people, pillars
of the community. We were taught in
Sunday School to identify with Matthew-the-tax-collector,
who responds to the call to follow Jesus.
Unfortunately, we are more like the
good religious people who get Jesus'
harshest words. The folks who are scandalized
at Jesus blurring the distinction of
being The Chosen People. If Jesus hangs
out with the scum of the earth, what
about us? Aren't we supposed to try
to be like God by avoiding contamination
by impure people? What if I catch what
they've got?
So maybe we ought to take
a closer look at what Jesus has to say
to the religious establishment-people
like us, the mainline denominations
of his day. The Pharisees have taken
a social risk by delicately bringing
to his attention the kind of crowd he's
hanging with. "Does he know?"
they ask, as they helpfully point out
that he is eating with the 1st century
equivalent of AIDS patients, meth users,
Resource Center clients, illegal immigrants,
and sexual predators. Jesus responds
by quoting Hosea to invoke the need
for hesed-God's steadfast love and mercy-on
behalf of those who don't deserve it.
Next, disciples of his competitor
for the religious radical left show
up-John the Baptist's disciples. John
is in legal trouble, and what they need
now is straight "how to" answers
about practical religion. Were they
Presbyterian, they would have asked
how to vote on the "chastity in
singleness, fidelity in marriage"
amendment. Is "contemporary"
worship OK, don't pro-choice people
go to heaven, do non-Christians go to
hell? Jesus answers that something new
is emerging. We ought to be scandalized
that Jesus crosses boundaries, makes
a vague, abstract concept like "mercy"
a higher priority than the clean-cut
ethics of family values. It is easier
to protect the purity of the church,
to be concerned for the "right"
kind of people and right behavior, than
it is to love people one by one. Especially
when they aren't like us.
Living faithfully-Jesus includes
evangelizing in the life of faith-means
taking risks. Tax collector Matthew
gives up his old, bad job. A woman braves
the crowd for one last chance at healing.
A pillar in the community faces ridicule
to get help for his already-dead daughter.
Who's laughing now? Is it the crowd
that knows for a fact the reality of
death, or is it the 90-year-old as-good-as-dead
new mother holding her infant son?
What if evangelism had more
to do with laughter than with filling
the pews and making sure everyone knows
the right way to act? Would you dare
ask a friend to attend church with you,
even if you might be turned down? Could
you tell someone that sometimes you
laugh because of what God does in your
life? About needing just seven more
dollars to buy groceries for the week,
and it turned out that there had been
a bank error in your favor to the tune
of $7.23. About agreeing to substitute
for Sunday School, because you were
the last person available-and the wonderful
time you had. About registering for
a class, but you went the wrong night,
and ran into a high school friend. About
the kitten who picked you, about the
book that changed your life, about the
kid you met whose grandmother was your
grandmother's best friend. Who's laughing
now?
Maybe Springwater isn't about
laughter. Maybe our faith is about what
we can learn and know. About measurable
and attainable goals. About managing
the way we do church. About keeping
God safely in our heads and away from
how we feel or act on any day but Sunday.
What if we didn't take ourselves so
seriously and let God be in charge of
being God, worrying about success and
failure, possibilities and implications.
Let God worry about that. What if we
just showed up and faithfully did what
we are called to do.
How can we call it "evangelism"
if it's not "good news"? Where
is the good news in "God loves
you," if it's followed by a set
of conditions (if you go to a mainline
church, if you vote the way I do, if
you hold the "correct" ethical
and moral convictions)? The advice I'm
giving about evangelism today is not
results-oriented. I'm not talking Billy
Graham crusade evangelism. I'm all about
"simple" today. Begin at the
bottom. Begin where it's closest to
you. Build relationships, delight in
God, be fair in what you do. Laugh.
That's evangelism. The Matthew story
is about removing barriers to isolation,
for the love God. That's evangelism.
That's our call.
One of my friends told me
about Clara, who has cerebral palsy.
Clara's mobility is compromised so badly
that someone comes into her home to
help her with daily living tasks-bathing,
dressing, cleaning, eating. Most people
have trouble understanding her speech,
so she depends on a voice-synthesizer
to communicate. One day, as her care
provider (Lois) was bathing her, Lois
said, "Clara, I want what you've
got." Clara's heart stopped. She
knew disabled folks who were victimized,
robbed by their care providers, and
she was afraid. Thinking Lois meant
her house, Clara said, "You can't
have it." Lois said, "No,
I want what you've got." Clara
thought Lois meant her computer, and
she knew she would be isolated if she
couldn't be understood, couldn't read
or connect to the internet. Again Clara
said, "You can't have it."
Lois looked more sad. "No, Clara.
I want what you've got. I must have
it! Life won't be worth living if I
can't have it." Now Clara was really
terrified. "Why would you steal
from me?" she asked, and because
she depended on Lois, she knew she was
vulnerable. Lois had tears running down
her face by now. "Clara, I want
the faith you have. I want the joy that
you have. Won't you tell me how?"
Sometimes evangelism sneaks
up on us. Sometimes we have no idea
we're saying something about God with
our lives. When we love people, for
God's sake. When we laugh for sheer
joy. When did we begin to think God's
business was too serious for laughter?
Maybe when we stopped teaching the Westminster
Catechism. We have been so preoccupied
with the existential question, "Who
am I and what am I doing here?"
we've forgotten that question was asked
and answered long ago in the Westminster
Catechism. "What is the chief end
of [humanity]?" What is our purpose.
"To glorify God and enjoy him forever."
Enjoy God? As in, "delight"?
As in, "tickled pink by"?
They can't mean, laugh.
Laughter isn't just "the
best medicine," as Reader's Digest
would have us believe. Laughter isn't
just "good for what ails us."
Laughter attracts. People don't enjoy
hanging around with sourpusses. Jesus'
ministry on earth was about removing
barriers to inclusion. We might consider
how laughter can help us remove barriers.
Maybe by admitting where God has delighted
and tickled us with improbable answers
to prayer. Think of two nearly-100-year-old
new parents! Does this make you want
to howl with laughter, or have we intimidated
that out of you? You might have humorous
anecdotes in your life, times when God
has acted preposterously for you. Would
you tell someone else your story? If
you knew it would encourage them to
look for God's grace in their life?
That's evangelism. That's taking a risk
and letting God be in charge of success.
Mother Teresa used to say, "We
aren't called to success; we are called
to be faithful." No one ever said
"faithful" didn't have a sense
of humor. Delight in God, my friends.
Evangelism is making room for others
to share in that delight.
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